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When was the last time you did something special for your lady?
If you’re anything like me, you did something special for your life partner on 14th Feb.
It’s always AMAZING to surprise my life partner.
She’s the best gift in my life.
When most people only focus on “bringing some roses”, “writing a card”, “saying I love you” on 14th February, the fact is that one-day love doesn’t sustain year-long romance.
Most people don’t get it. No wonder most people are average.
When most people stop being romantic on 15th February, that’s when we increase our LOVE.
Because we truly care for our partners.
In fact, building a ROCKING relationship is one of the MAJOR issues in India today. And creating an AMAZING family life is of the 4 PILLARS people master in my RULE YOUR LIFE MASTERMIND.
Here are 3 reasons why you want to KEEP being AMAZING in your relationships AFTER valentine’s day is over now:
REASON #1: When you bring in amazing value in your love life daily, your partner feels 'WOW'ed. Your partner will see you as an UNLIMITED source of inspiration. Your partner will FEEL SPECIAL, every day. Who doesn't want that?
REASON #2: When you bring in amazing value in your love life daily, you feel better about yourself and about your relationship with your lady. None loves an AVERAGE RELATIONSHIP. Everyone wants to ENJOY an AMAZING relationship, and you can only achieve it by investing love in your relationship every day. Not just on 14th February.
REASON #3: When you bring in amazing value in your love life daily, your children see you as a role model of what they want to become. This is HUGE! One of the reasons I’ve become what I’ve become is because while growing up, I saw my father do the right things in his life. He’s been respectful to others. Pappa has been RESPECTFUL TO MAA. And for that MAA has been respectful to Pappa. So automatically my respect for him has INCREASED.
Your children’s EYES are watching you, always. In order to gain your children’s respect, you EARN the respect by being an AMAZING life partner. (By the way, don’t keep touching your wife in front of your children, LOL)
Now the question is "What can I do, Bishal, to keep my love life HOT apart from the daily rituals I do?"
AWESOME question.
Here are 10 WAYS you can SURPRISE your lady
once the VALENTINE’s DAY is OVER:
Daily Hot Idea #1: Bring in HER FAVORITE chocolate at home this week. Add a small note to it on a small piece of yellow sticky note, keep it on the bed, let her find it when she come to bed to sleep. She'll be SURPRISED. Eat it together before sleeping (not a healthy idea, but hey--- she’ll be DAMN happy). AMAZING idea.
Daily Hot Idea #2: Send her a selfie video (20-30 seconds from office) via whatsapp/FB. Oh yes, keep it private.
Daily Hot Idea #3: Get to know her favorites. Get to know which actors/actresses she likes. See if any of their new movies are coming. Buy 2 tickets of one of those movies. Call her during lunch and say: “I will come home at 8:30. When I am there near home, I will call you. Keep the children with their grannies for a few hours. Come down, and we’ll go somewhere you'll LOVE.”
Daily Hot Idea #4: Ask her to wear a nice dress. “Hey by the way, wear the blank saree. You look beautiful in it.” (She’ll NEVER forget this line). Ask your sister about it.
Daily Hot Idea #5: Thank her every day for taking care of you and the family.
Daily Hot Idea #6: Write her a small letter and tell her your feelings for her. Love letters are NOT meant to be stopped after marriage.
Daily Hot Idea #7: Make her a morning cup of coffee once or twice a month (trust me, making coffee once-in-a-while doesn’t make you look weak as a husband. In reality, it makes you LOOK DAMN STRONG)
Daily Hot Idea #8: Hug her from behind and don’t leave her for a minute, no matter how much she says, “Someone will see!” (Females LOVE this).
Daily Hot Idea #9: Buy her a new bag/shoe BEFORE she asks.
Daily Hot Idea #10: Try a new hairstyle and tell her: “How does your man look tonight?”
Look...
She left her home to be with you, respect her for that.
Let me know how these ideas are helping you.
Only a few people in this world are enjoying a FULFILLING relationship. I am one of those people. I hope you're one of those happy people too.
This week, you can apply some of these ideas and you'll see a DRASTIC transformation in your relationship and in your life.
I look forward to hearing your success story.
I look forward to reading about you and your wife as a source of INSPIRATION.
For questions, email me: Bishal@BishalSarkar.com (I generally take 10-25 days to reply to blog emails)
About the author: Bishal Sarkar, popularly known as “Mr. PRACTICAL”, is called the best motivational speaker of Bangalore India. Bishal is the creator of “ROCK THE STAGE” (The Best Public Speaking Course in Bangalore) where he teaches the participants the step-by-step easy-to-follow process of public speaking success. He regularly speaks to professionals from corporate groups, and trains people from various walks of life and brings out the POWERFUL men within them. As the author of the book “I Love Public Speaking”, Bishal now teaches professionals how to overcome fear of public speaking and deliver powerful presentations using the proven formula of speaking & presentation success, through his most practical public speaking courses in India & communication skills classes in Bangalore. He also helps aspiring speakers by teaching them How to become a motivational speaker in India. People say that he has designed the best presentation skills classes & public speaking workshops in Bangalore. For enrolling in Bishal Sarkar’s ROCK THE STAGE, call us on +91-88803-61526.
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